Online Therapy for Gay Men

If you’ve spent years shrinking yourself to fit, you’re not broken. You’re tired. 

I offer online therapy for gay men across Europe and the UK who feel stuck and are done with people-pleasing

I’m Gino, a gay therapist.

This is a space where you do not need to translate gay life in order to be understood. 

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How therapy works

What we can work on

  • Rebuild confidence after years of hiding, performing, or feeling “not enough” 

  • Break patterns like ghosting or shutting down, and learn to connect for real 

  • Let go of people-pleasing and prioritize your needs without guilt 

  • Heal shame, rejection, and family wounds that still run the show 

  • Untangle anxiety, depression, and burnout 

  • Step out of porn, substances, or hookup fatigue without judgement, just clarity

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How therapy with me works

This is not therapy where you collect insight for months and nothing changes.

We start by mapping the pattern: what you do when you feel unsafe. The overthinking. The chasing. The shutdown. The performing. Then we track what it protects you from and what it costs you now.

From there, we build capacity. Emotional steadiness. Cleaner boundaries. A different relationship with shame and self-criticism.

Not perfect. Just real.

In the first few sessions, we build a shared understanding of what you want to shift, and we agree on a direction.

After that, the work is open-ended psychotherapy, paced to your life and nervous system. 

What clients say

  • Before working with Gino, I thought I was confident—but I was just performing. Our sessions helped me connect with a part of myself I’d shut down years ago. I don’t need to prove myself anymore just to feel worthy.

    Thomas, 42

  • I used to either chase unavailable guys or shut down completely. Gino helped me understand where that came from—and now I’m finally showing up in relationships without fear or games.

    Michael, 32

  • I’ve had anxiety for years, but therapy with Gino made me realize I wasn’t just anxious—I was lonely in a way I hadn’t admitted. He helped me feel less alone in who I am, not just what I feel.

    Jay, 28

  • Growing up religious, I carried so much shame about being gay. Gino helped me untangle that without judgment. For the first time, I feel like I can hold my identity without conflict.

    Leo, 34

Licensed therapist. Registered with BACP, NCPS, and HPCSA.

10+ years of clinical experience.
Work is LGBTQ-specific, not rainbow-sticker generic.

I am licensed and registered with these accredited associations and regulators.

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If you’re ready to begin, complete the inquiry form or book a session by clicking the red button on the side.

I reply within 24–36 hours. 

Fee: €135 per session

Session length: 50 minutes

Location: online (Zoom or another secure video platform) 

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