You’re not broken—you’re burnt out from surviving.

Over a decade of working with gay men has taught me this: anxiety, shame, and hookup fatigue are symptoms of a world that taught us to hide.

Therapy with me is different because I’m part of this world too. Based in Lisbon, I work online with clients across Europe and the UK.

If you’re reading from the US or Canada, see my mentorship page for non‑clinical support

Black and white portrait of gay therapist Gino Cosme, smiling, resting his chin on his hand, wearing a dark shirt.

What We Can Work On

  • Heal unresolved trauma—childhood, religious, relational

  • Manage anxiety, panic and depression without shame

  • Build authentic self‑esteem and let go of constant self‑criticism

  • Dealing with loneliness, isolation, or “not fitting in”

  • Redefine sex, love and dating on your terms, free from hookup burnout

  • Reconnect with who you really are—beyond coping and survival

Investment & Logistics

  • Investment: €135 per session.

  • Response time: I reply within 24–36 hours.

  • Session format: Online via secure video platform.

  • Eligibility: Therapy is available to clients located in the EU and UK.

    For non‑EU/UK residents, see the mentorship page.

If you’re ready to start, complete this form.

I reply within 24–36 hours

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I am licensed and an accredited member of these professional associations and regulators.

I am licensed and registered with these accredited associations and regulators.

FAQs

Who do you work with?

Gay men in the EU/UK, aged 18 and above.

Do you offer sliding‑scale fees?

Yes, limited slots based on need.

How long is each session?

50 minutes.

Do you offer therapy to clients outside the EU/UK?

Mentorship is available to clients outside these regions; however, therapy is currently restricted to EU/UK jurisdictions.