Talk to a gay therapist who gets it.

Whether you’re stuck in hookup cycles, struggling to feel worthy in love, or tired of performing your way through life, I can help you unpack the deeper stuff: shame, intimacy fears, emotional burnout, loneliness, and the pressure to have it all together

Together, we'll strive to create a life filled with fulfillment and self-acceptance.

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Here's how I can support you:

  • Rebuild confidence and self-trust after years of hiding, performing, or feeling “not enough”

  • Break patterns in relationships—ghosting, chasing, shutting down—and start connecting more deeply

  • Let go of people-pleasing and start showing up for your own needs without guilt

  • Heal emotional wounds from childhood, religion, bullying, or toxic family dynamics

  • Navigate the messiness of modern gay dating and friendship—with less anxiety and more clarity

  • Work through anxiety, depression, or loneliness that’s been quietly taking over

  • Explore sex, intimacy, and desire without shame, pressure, or labels

  • Look at patterns around substance use, porn, or hookup burnout with honesty—not judgment

  • Build emotional resilience and create self-care that actually works in your real life

Why see a gay therapist?

Research shows LGBTQ therapists provide better mental health support for gay men than non-LGBTQ counselors or psychologists.

As an experienced gay therapist, I offer a safe, affirming space where you can be unapologetically yourself.

Plus, as a gay man who has also been in therapy, I understand what it feels like to seek help.

More importantly, I know what it’s like to struggle with gay-related challenges that many straight people don’t understand.

  • Working with a gay therapist who truly understands our community has been transformative. I finally feel seen and understood.

    Thomas, 42

  • Gino’s understanding of my needs helped me address the shame and guilt I had carried inside for so long. I've found joy in being myself.

    Michael, 32

  • Thank you for helping me feel less isolated. You helped me acknowledge and improve my self-esteem. Can’t thank you enough.

    Jay, 28

  • Gino helped me understand how I was escaping my feelings. I was grateful to understand the root of my anxiety, and unpacking that has helped me so much.

    Thomas, 41

  • The flexibility of online sessions and Gino's expertise in gay men's issues made therapy accessible and relevant for the first time.

    Michael, 29

I am licensed and an accredited member of these professional associations and regulators.

I am licensed and registered with these accredited associations and regulators.

Online therapy is not the best choice if you have severe mental health conditions like schizophrenia and bipolar disorder. If you have intense mood swings, mania, self-harm thoughts, or behaviors, reach out to a healthcare provider in person.

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